Single and available

in my social conversations, there's nothing i hate more than attached ppl asking me "so when r u gonna find someone to spice up your life?" or "don't you wanna get a boyfriend to make your life more fulfilling?"

what is WRONG with these people??!!??

what makes you think that being single and available is boring, unfulfilling, saddening, etc? and what makes you think that being attached is the sole thing that makes life happy and worthwhile?

yeah i know you've found someone to love, someone who loves you... and u're in total bliss (or rather oblivion)... but does tt give you the right to enforce what makes you happy on others?

and it is not just aunties... those i dun really mind cos well, they're lydat... i'm used to it and sometimes i do sense some true concern in them. it's ppl who abandon you as friends after they (think they) have found their sole source of fulfillment and then come and lecture you on how you should walk their footsteps too. it's ppl who've lost part of their personality and so-called abducted that old friend of yours who bug you to quick go get attached too... otherwise ohh... life's so sad...

hey look! i lead my own life and i'm perfectly happy with it now. if i need love to make me happy, then i feel sad for myself. cos really, i think i should be happy with myself first before i can bring someone else into my happy life. it's something like i must learn to love myself before i have the capacity to love someone else.

haha... i'm just rambling... cos i know those ppl will most prob not read my blog. cos like i said, they've found the one thing tt makes their life worthwhile and nobody else matters anymore. i dunno who's sadder really...